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The Diocesan President of
Cashel, Ferns, Ossory Mothers' Union
A Letter from the Diocesan President ~ Lesley Bayley
Dear fellow members,
This month’s main article is written by Claudia Kidd, our Young Families Representative. In it she speaks about the importance of friendship and the role our membership in Mothers’ Union plays in that, as well as how much she is looking forward to getting back to branch meetings and also visiting other branches again.
By the time you read this we will have had our ‘Special Council’ meeting on that very subject: ‘Rebuilding Hope and Confidence – Reopening Branches’. Hopefully those who attended the meeting will have had many great ideas and will be looking forward to the autumn with renewed enthusiasm and optimism, as we reimagine how we operate as branches and look for imaginative and supportive ways in which we can do outreach within our wider communities, instead of comfortably sitting within the confines of our parish halls.
We hope to have several Zoom ‘area meetings’ over the next few months to discuss these ideas and to form a strategy for moving forward out of COVID and into the ‘new normal’.
Keep well and stay safe,
Date for your Diary:
Special Council Meeting:
Wednesday 30th June @ 7 p.m. ~ This will focus on the re-opening of Branches so we hope that every Branch will be represented at this meeting.
June's Walk ~ 21 in 21
Thursday 8th July ~ June Butler to walk in Kilkenny ~ Starting at the new Deanery car park at 11am, including a walk around the castle grounds and along the river, and concluding outside the cathedral. Picnic in the car park afterwards
Monday 12th July ~ June to walk in New Ross, Tintern Abbey ~ Starting at 11am, including a walk through the woods and around the gardens, and concluding at the abbey ruins. Lunch either picnic or in the cafe, whichever people prefer.
In Mothers’ Union friendship and fellowship are a much-valued part of the organisation. There is no better way to make friends as we share with each other our stories and experiences in life and spend time together over a cup of tea. With the COVID-19 lockdowns we have missed out on being able to spend time together and take part in our Mothers’ Union activities, parish events and family gatherings. But we are thankful for technology such as phone calls, zoom, facetime and skype.
With the easing of restrictions and more people having been vaccinated it’s time to awaken and start to rebuild our Mothers’ Union branches so we can slowly begin to interact with each other and plan for the months ahead. True friendship is not weakened by separation of time or distance.
I am really looking forward to being able to meet up and a having our next branch meeting, travelling to other branches for their meetings, going on outings and making new friends, as well as catching up with old friends. We will all need to support our own branches and our neighbouring branches in the months ahead and if we could encourage new members to join, that would be brilliant.
‘You are better off having a friend than being all alone… If you fall, your friend can help you up. But if you fall without having a friend nearby, you are really in trouble’ (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10).
A big thank you to Lesley, Margaret and Joan for keeping us updated throughout the whole lockdown and for all the work they do in the name of Mothers’ Union.
God of love and understanding, we recognise that membership
of the Mothers’ Union is a privilege. We thank you for the members
in all our branches and for the common concern for marriage
and family life which binds us together.
We pray that we will continue to enjoy each other’s friendship,
to work together in love and to encourage each other with
the hope of Jesus Christ. Amen (MU Australia)
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Mothers' Union Video
Click on the Mothers' Union emblem below to see the video highlighting the work of Mothers' Union which was filmed at the Triennial Conference in Termonfeckin in March 2017
The video features members of Mothers' Union from around Ireland telling all about the organisation and the many different projects supported by Mothers' Union both here at home and in Third World Countries.
One of the clips features our very own Joan Blake who can be seen knitting a matinee jacket and talking about the Mothers' Union Knitting Project
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Sheran Harper ~ Worldwide President
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Phyllis' Armchair Quiz
to raise funds for Mums in May
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June's Walk in Kilkenny
June Butler's first walk in the Diocese took place in Kilkenny on Thursday 8th June. We are very grateful to Florrie Carter and her team in Kilkenny Mothers' Union for all of the time and effort they put in to ensure that everything ran smoothly. Those participating enjoyed a lovely walk over the new bridge, by the river and on to the Castle Grounds before returning to the cathedral. Pat Nolan accompanied us on the walk giving an interesting account of all of the historical areas we passed. Sam Harper met up with us en route and provided same lovely ice-cream for refreshments. Some of the walkers had other commitments and were unable to continue on the walk but eight completed it. We were delighted that Bishop Michael Burrows was able to join us for the walk too.
Our thanks to the ladies from Kilkenny MU for all of the hospitality they provided both before and after the walk.
June thanked everyone for their support and welcome to Kilkenny. Florrie Carter, Branch leader, presented June with a small token to mark her visit to Kilkenny.
June's Second Walk ~ Tintern Abbey
June Butler's second walk in CFO took place on Monday 12th July at Tintern Abbey near Saltmills in Co. Wexford. The weather forecast for the morning was miserable but thankfully it turned out to be fine and a lovely day for walking. It was wonderful to meet up with so many members before eight set off to complete one of the longer walks through the woods.
June was delighted to meet up with Bea Thorpe in the walled gardens and have a chat with her. Three ladies set off with June to complete a further two kilometers so as to achieve her 7km target on each walk. When we arrived back in the car park we met up with Anne Barrett, a former All-Ireland President, and our own Phyllis Grothier, who was the previous All-Ireland President, was also present.
Our thanks to Olive Thorpe for her work in arranging the walk and to everyone who attended Tintern Abbey on the day.
Mums' Marvellous Meals
The Mothers' Union Cookbook, "Mums' Marvellous Meals", was launched at our Special Council meeting on 22nd June. Copies will be delivered to the Dioceses over the next couple of months.
The Cookbook contains recipes from members from all over Ireland and is divided into different sections ~ Starters, Main Courses, Desserts and Traditional Irish Recipes.
The Cookbook will go on sale for £ 5 or € 5 and all proceeds will go to the "Mums in May" fund.
Click on the image below to view a video of pages from the Cookbook
Competition Time & Mums in May 2021
Throughout the last year All-Ireland Mothers' Union has organised many different competitions to challenge members creativity. The results of all of these competitiones may be found on the "Competition" page of the All-Irealnd website. Click on the link below to bring you to this web page.
We are delighted that two members from Cashel, Ferns & Ossory received Highly Commended for their mascots in the Mascot Competition~ Dorothy Langley from Cashel Mothers' Union and Joan Blake from Ballycanew, Leskinfere & Monamolin Mothers' Union. You can view pictures of their entries below and pictures of all of the entries on the All-Ireland website.
Congratulations to Phyllis Grothier from Tullow Branch who won first prize for the Prayer she composed and to The Very Revd. Tom Gordon who got Highly Commended for his Hymn. All of the prize winning hymns and prayers are on the All-Ireland website
There is a dedicated page for Mums in May 2021 on the All-Ireland website and it will document all of the various fundraising events as well as June's walk ~ "21 in 21" Click on the link below to bring you to the webpage.
Winning Prayer ~ Phyllis Grothier
Loving Lord, I bring my prayer to you through faith in your love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better: for the times when I cause hurt either through my words or actions; when I do not recognise you in the face of my neighbour, when I see another human being as different or of less value. Teach me to show love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better: for the times when I see need and do not respond, hear hurtful words and do not call them out, am deaf to the cries of the hungry, hurt and abused. Teach me to show love and mercy.
Father forgive and help me to do better; for the times when I treat your creation as a personal possession rather than a fragile resource to be nurtured and valued . Teach me to show love and mercy.
Teach me to remember always that, while faith, hope and love abide, the greatest of these is love. Inspire me with the confidence to live this truth in my daily life both in word and action, knowing that all I am or can be is based on the strong foundation of God’s saving love. In Jesus’ name I pray.
Hymn by The Very Revd. Tom Gordon
God who is Father of infinite goodness,
God who is Mother and called us to birth,
God, who in Christ, broke the chains that had bound us,
Freed us for kindness, for joy and for mirth
God of all tenderness. God of all tendernessGrace overflowing which reaches to all.Bread for our hunger, rich wine at your banquet,Each has a place who responds to your call.
God who is Spirit, expectant before you,
Raise from our brokenness beauty and love.
From the dry bones of our sin and divisions,
Mould us in gentleness born from above. Refrain.
Break through the times when we limit your mercies.
Rise like the sun beaming measureless grace.
Help us with joy to proclaim love’s endeavour -
All now are welcome in Jesus’ embrace. Refrain.
Tune: To the Hymn Great is the Faithfulness
Highly Commended ~ Dorothy Langley
Highly Commended ~ Joan Blake
Ballycanew, Leskinfere, Monamolin MU
Getting to know our Founder In Ireland
1847 – 1921
Mothers’ Union was founded in Raheny, Dublin in 1887 by Mrs Annabella Hayes. As we celebrate the 100th Anniversary of her death, let’s learn a little more about our founder.
Annabella was born in Dublin in 1847, the daughter of Thomas Edkins Willson of Upper Mount Street. In December 1866 she married the Reverend Francis Carlile Hayes who was then curate in Sandford Parish Church. She was nineteen years old and he was twenty-eight.
In 1867 he was appointed curate of St. Andrew's Church, Suffolk Street, and their first child, Ernest William Carlile Hayes, was born in February 1868. In 1873, Sir Arthur Edward Guinness (later Lord Ardilaun) appointed him Rector of Raheny Parish and he and Annabella moved to the Glebe House where they were to remain for the next forty-five years.
Their second child, Marie Elizabeth (always known as May) was born in May1874, and in April 1878 her sister Ethel Clara Ridley was born. A boy, Maurice, was born in 1886 but sadly died in infancy. Ernest went to school at St.Columba's and an English governess, Connie Gibbs of Willesden, was appointed to look after the education of the two girls.
In 1887 Annabella Hayes set up the first branch of the Mothers' Union in Raheny, inspired by what Mary Sumner had done in England eleven years before. Little did either of them know that in the twenty-first century world-wide membership of M.U would have grown to over four million.
Canon and Mrs Hayes liked to travel and visited Norway, Switzerland and Canada. After their daughter Marie's untimely death in Delhi in 1908 aged 33, they travelled to Delhi to visit the hospital where Marie had worked for the previous three years and to meet people she had worked with. Later Annabella edited and published letters which Marie had written to home. Marie's final letter, sadly, arrived some weeks after the fateful telegram giving news of her death had been received in Raheny. The Hayes memorial cross in Raheny village was erected some years later.
Francis and Annabella were still in the Raheny Rectory when they celebrated their Golden Wedding in 1916. Canon Hayes retired in 1918 and he and Annabella moved to 12 Northbrook Road which was apparently owned by Francis since his days at St. Andrew's. Annabella survived a bad bout of 'flu shortly after they moved, but was taken ill again about a year later. She was diagnosed with liver cancer and died at home on the 7th February 1921.
Annabella was buried in St. Fintan's Cemetery in Sutton and her headstone (and that of Francis) stands at the highest point of the Cemetery. It is, however, not made of stone but of wood - teak, and despite its having stood there for 100 years there is absolutely no sign of decay in the timber. Mothers’ Union in Ireland had planned to do some restorative work to her gravesite during 2021 but has been put on hold because of Covid 19 restrictions.
Annabella was 74 when she died on 7th February 1921 and Francis was 94 when he died on 12th December 1931.
Click on the link below to access a service from Raheny celebrating the life of Annabella Hayes
Mother's Union at Synod 2019
Many members from the Diocese attended the General Synod in the Millennium Forum, Derry/Londonderry, 16th – 18th May. Some of our members appear in the picture on the left at the Mothers' Union stand at Synod, along with the All-Ireland President, June Butler. The Mothers' Union stand is always very popular and does a great deal to promote the work of Mothers' Union at home and abroad.
We were delighted that our website was awarded the runners-up prize for websites in "The Affiliated Associations" section. Lesley Bayley, our Diocesan President, was present at a function in The Guild Hall to collect the award.
The winning website in this section was Dublin/Glendalough Mothers' Union.
The judges had the following to say about the website:
‘… a website packed with information about the work of the Mother’s Union. It is kept up to date and gives a good sense of the identity and the work of the organisation.’
PRAYER FOR MULOA
We pray that our God will make us fit for what he’s called us to be,
that he’ll fill our good ideas and acts of faith with his own energy
so that it all amounts to something.
As our lives honour the name of Jesus,
may he honour us, by his grace; our God giving himself freely,
the Master, Jesus Christ, giving himself freely. Amen
Based on 2 Thessalonians 1:11-12 (The Message)
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